Author: Sarah Herrick

Feed Your Joy

Sometimes it feels like a miracle that you or your partner haven’t lost their marbles, sold everything, and fled north to live a life of solitary freedom with a cabin and thirty-two sled dogs.

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Milestones and Memories

8 years and 12 days ago, a ticking time bomb went off in my brain. If you had asked me before it happened if I felt anything coming on, I would have said no.

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you’re neither fish nor fowl when you’re chronically ill

There’s a certain amount of attitude that goes into having a chronic illness. You accept that this is your body and that you have limitations. It really isn’t the kind of situation where you can grit your teeth and pull yourself up by the bootstraps and you will overcome. The American Dream doesn’t work on chronic illness. But you can give your chronic illness a big old middle finger and have fun with the things you can do.

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whose life is this anyway?

Being sick sucks, but it’s led me to the knowledge that I am damn strong and damn determined. It’s brought me creativity and a patience I never would have imagined having, and a collection of very pretty walking canes. I adore my girls and my husband. I wish my daughters hadn’t had to learn how to be helpful and independent so early, but holy moly, they are amazing kids and they both have a maturity level and skill set beyond many of their peers because of it

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Navigating Abuse

My inaugural blog post here was going to be an introduction to my life as a mom who is disabled and sometimes works, sometimes can’t, and who sometimes has a funny story to share about trying to chase small children from a wheelchair. But something is weighing on my heart, and I think it’s worth talking about. Baby Aaden lost his life last week, allegedly at the hands of his suicidal father, after his mother attempted and failed to get a protective order renewed for herself and her baby in the Middletown court system. We will never know if that renewal would have saved Baby Aaden, and I have no doubt that the judge involved in his case is heartbroken. This tragedy strikes close to home, and makes me think “there but for the grace of the heavens go I.” A close family member of mine went through a similar experience, in the same courtroom, and I vividly remember how daunting it was for her to navigate that process as a young parent who was in fear of her life and those of her children. The first hurdle was retaining a lawyer. Like many of us, she had never needed a lawyer before. Finding a good lawyer was daunting. She wasn’t sure she needed one. After all, she had facts on her side — and no resources. It’s hard...

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