An Apology Letter on Valentine’s Day

Feb 14, 2014 by

Ladies – I know a lot of you can relate to what I’ve been going through lately. A lack of energy, irritability and a never-ending to-do list can really cause us moms to be too tired after our kids bedtimes, that we basically fall asleep as soon as our heads hit the pillow.  Even worse, we can become distant with our significant others, which takes a large toll on our already strained relationships. That being said, instead of giving my husband a traditional Valentine’s Day card this year, I gave him an apology letter right before bed, with sincere, raw wording that no Hallmark card could ever provide.  


I know sometimes I can be irritating and come across as frustrated and distant, but I want you to know that tonight, as I lay beside you, that it is me, Melissa. Tonight, I’m no one else, but the person you married. I am the happy, excited, somewhat quirky woman who married you five years ago.

Making Valentine’s Day Memories

Feb 14, 2014 by

Like my fellow blogger Elise, I love Valentine’s Day because I love telling people I love them! I just love the love. I’m also a bit sappy and cheesy so I take full advantage of this special day.

I tend to get a lot of craft and activity ideas from my fellow bloggers and Elise had posted something on Facebook back in January about an activity/craft idea for Valentine’s Day. Essentially the idea is to decorate your child’s door with a heart each night so that when they wake up in the morning they enjoy the excitement of seeing what’s new. I started on Feb. 1st and put up the last heart last night.

An 11 Year-Old’s Musings On Romance

Feb 14, 2014 by

An 11 Year-Old’s Musings On Romance

So, I asked my 11 year old son what he thought about Valentine’s Day.

“I don’t have a girlfriend or anything like that, so I don’t really think about it,” he replied, completely uninterested in the conversation.

Aaaand of course, I pressed the issue.

“Well, what if you did have a girlfriend? What would you do for her for Valentine’s Day?” I asked.

“I would buy her chocolates…because it’s one thing that mankind can really get excited about,” he wisely told me.

Ah, the romantic ideals of an 11 year old boy.

“But what if you were interested in a girl, what types of things would you do to get her interested in you?” I asked.

Counting off on his fingers, he shared his strategy for winning over a potential mate:

1. Be really kind, smile at her, and say hi.

For the Love of Love

Feb 13, 2014 by

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We Schreiers love love.

That, coupled with the fact that we are unapologetically cheesy, means that Valentine’s Day is right up our alley.  Not the over-commercialized, chocolate-and-roses, Hallmark holiday that so many have come to avoid with a passion, but the hearts and handwritten notes, kisses and hugs, holiday that asks us to take a break from the winter doldrums to fill a day chock full of love.

Right about this time in February I’m typically full of complaints.  The cold. The short days. The cabin fever. The tiredness. The distance between today and my next vacation. THE F-ING SNOW!!!  I wasn’t made for the winter.  But Valentine’s Day comes as a welcome break from all that is gray and complain-y.

First Valentines

Feb 10, 2014 by

On my daughter’s first Valentine’s Day, we dressed her in some red and pink hearts and called it a day.

Happy Valentines Day


On her second Valentine’s Day (19 months old), I might have dressed her in a pink shirt – I can’t really remember. What I do remember is feeling like a total loser when she came home with a bag full of Valentines when I had sent her in with none. I think 19 months old is a little young for Valentines and most people who gave them out in her class had older siblings. Luckily, she was too young to even realize she hadn’t given them out.

Looking through her Valentines at 19 months old.

Looking through her Valentines at 19 months old.

The next year, I went with store bought Valentines with a bag of Goldfish attached. Easy as pie and not much expense.

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