A Walk Down the Aisle

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In just over a week, my little sugar plum is going to be the flower girl in my brother-in-law’s wedding. Besides her upcoming third birthday party, this is the probably the biggest event she will be participating in that she may actually remember. I am so excited to see this child walk down that aisle in her precious pink organza dress, making a path of flowers for the gorgeous bride. But I also have to admit…I am a little nervous she will not follow the program and I will have to (gently) push her down the aisle.

My little princess.  Now if only I can comb her hair without her screaming bloody torture!  Photo credit: Mary Grace Peak
My little princess. Now if only I can comb her hair without her screaming bloody torture! Photo credit: Mary Grace Peak

As I have written before, my daughter is that “spirited” child in Starbucks and has been known to throw a tantrum or two in Target. She can’t help it, she’s almost three. The world is her oyster and she wants to absorb it all on her terms. Besides, we all know that a toddler doing the right thing in public is pretty much a crapshoot. Preparing for this occasion brought me back to my wedding six years ago when we had the same concerns with my three-year-old “spirited” nephew Joey. While he did step on his sister’s dress as they walked down the aisle almost causing her to fall, it generated quite a bit of laughs from the audience and helped me feel more relaxed before I made my big appearance. I think people expect comedy when you throw the unpredictability of a child into the mix of a wedding. They expect it as much as seeing your crazy uncle get a little too tipsy and boogie on the dance floor like the Tony Manero character in Saturday Night Fever.

Perfect angel Olivia Photo Credit: Jerome Braga
Perfect angel Olivia
Photo Credit: Jerome Braga

 

The ever-lovable, but so unpredictable Joey!  Photo Credit:  Jerome Braga
The ever-lovable, but so unpredictable Joey! Photo Credit: Jerome Braga
We did manage to get the perfect group shot by bribing Joey with his favorite toy screwdriver.  Photo credit: Jerome Braga
We did manage to get the perfect group shot by bribing Joey with his favorite toy screwdriver. Photo credit: Jerome Braga

 

I do have faith in my child and believe that her beautiful little heart will allow her to get swept up in the magic of the moment, allowing her to obediently perform her flower girl duties without a hitch. We keep talking about how exciting the wedding will be, how important it is to be a flower girl, and how much of a fairy princess she will be in her dress. However, I got a little worried last night when she protested “I don’t want to be a flower girl!” (Ssshhhh, don’t tell the bride!). But I am going to attribute that to the fact that she was mad at me for not giving her pudding at 9 o’clock at night.

This dress did not make the final cut, but oh my goodness!  It got me thinking about Mia's big day someday.  Photo Credit: Mary Grace Peak
This dress did not make the final cut, but oh my goodness! It got me thinking about Mia’s big day someday. Photo Credit: Mary Grace Peak

So, dear readers, I am turning to you for some good advice or tips on preparing young children to be respectable members of a wedding party. I would love to hear stories about your own wedding day too. Thanks and I will let you know how it goes!

 

 

20 comments on “A Walk Down the Aisle”

  1. I have no advice, I’m sorry, but I love love love the photos! That one of Mia in the white dress is so precious.

  2. My oldest was a flower girl twice before she was two and I was a nervous wreck both times! She ended up doing a great job, and we took away great memories. Mia looks adoarble! I can’t wait to see pics from the wedding. Enjoy your little one’s special moment! 🙂

  3. Beautiful photos! About hair, at that age my daughter wouldn’t let anyone touch her hair for about two years. She washed it but no combing, brushing or styling. It’s a good story as are all the ones I’ve seen at weddings with kids getting confused or excited. Advice: don’t worry and do enjoy the moment!

    1. Haha – I love the story about your daughter’s hair :). I will try to relax and not stress so much about something that will last about 30 seconds. And I think it is totally hilarious when kids are confused when they walk down the aisle. Thanks for the advice!

  4. Love the pics and looking for the same advice. My oldest will be doing the same on Halloween this year and will be around the same age as your daughter, month before her 3rd birthday. I know she will enjoy every minute of it but not sure how the walk down will be.

  5. SO CUTE! She looks ADORABLE. There is no way anyone will think she is anything but adorable and perfect. Have fun! And post pictures please! 🙂

  6. I love this! She looks so precious in those dresses! My advice is to make sure she is well fed and not tired on the big day! If there is a dinner the night before, maybe get a sitter to take her home early so she can get a good night’s sleep. And don’t worry if she does everything BUT walk straight down the aisle- chances are everyone will think she is the cutest thing ever!

    1. Thanks for the sage advice mama! Sometimes I forget to feed her when we are in a rush (bad, bad mommy), but I will remember to do that and pack snacks. I also love the idea of getting her down early the night before.

  7. Oh! I love all the pics! I’m sure it will either go swimmingly or you’ll have a fantasticly funny story to tell afterwards. 😉

    1. I think you are right! It could so go either way. But I plan to laugh and enjoy the situation no matter what the outcome is!

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